Never judge others! It's true, we are built to immediately react as soon as we notice something completely different from anything that might not fit our programming, but, most of the time, it would be better to just hold back.

Even though the first impression always counts, it will not always show what is truly happening on the inside. This usually happens because most of the time either you're not showing everything there is within you or you're just putting out there what you actually shouldn't. Therefore everything boils down to controlling yourself and to being aware of the effects that what we let outside for others to see, can have.

You'd be entirely superficial if you'd choose to make an opinion only from what a first impression shows you. Even those who expose a superb appearance, happy and balanced, can, actually be broken inside. Reality is that you'll always form an opinion from just a first look at somebody else, but the key is to not become rigid in your thinking and take this first impression like the most suitable tool to discover another person.

Moreover, sharing an opinion about somebody else, built only on a first impression, would be completely senseless, especially if there is a hidden bad intention of mocking the person in question. Therefore, do not rush! Don't immediately point the finger at someone! Learn to explore more and deeper another person's universe and only afterwards give voice to your opinion!







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