Don't force relationships! Don't become a burden for others to carry! If others will feel that your presence is needed, then they will ask for it. You can't just force people to be with you if they don't truly feel this.

Most of the time, this need of yours to keep people as close as possible can be very well translated as a cry for help. You are not enough for yourself and so you need other people to bring you the feeling of being alive. Socializing is extremely healthy, but only if you do it in the right way, as in this closure being wanted by both parts.

First and foremost, you need to fill yourself up, you need to be able to sit with yourself, with both the good and the bad parts. Only after you'll be fully aware of what you represent and that you are the best presence for yourself, you'll be able to have healthy human contact.

Actually, you can have social contact whenever you want, but do it in the most natural way, without resisting any refusal you might get. Not everybody has to like you and has to need your presence and this is fine!

This is how your system is built: to need certain things and, most importantly, certain people. You are built in such a way that you need only the presence of certain people and, on the same thinking pattern, you need to be liked only by some souls. No matter what you do and how much effort you put out there, you will never get to convince all people to "buy" what you're selling, yourself that is. And this happens precisely because they don't need you. This doesn't mean that you're less worthy of this life just because some people didn't receive you with arms wide open.

It's most natural for things to happen like this! The moment you start forcing relationships and you push yourself in doing something that's entirely unnatural, you will, most certainly, feel the effects which won't be very pleasant. Not everybody has to like you and this is just fine!








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